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PERFECTLY JOINED TOGETHER

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Preached by E. Jardinel @Prayer Meeting, 12-03-25

Now I beseech you, brethren, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that ye all speak the same thing, and that there be no divisions among you; but that ye be perfectly joined together in the same mind and in the same judgment. (1 Corinthians 1:10)

The church of Corinth, now lying bleeding in the wound:

  • Carnality

And I, brethren, could not speak unto you as unto spiritual, but as unto carnal, even as unto babes in Christ. I have fed you with milk, and not with meat: for hitherto ye were not able to bear it, neither yet now are ye able. (1 Corinthians 3:1-2)

  • Schism

For ye are yet carnal: for whereas there is among you envying, and strife, and divisions, are ye not carnal, and walk as men? For while one saith, I am of Paul; and another, I am of Apollos; are ye not carnal? (1 Corinthians 3:3-4)

Apostle Paul, applying a solution to the problem as he said: (1 Cor. 1: 10).

BESEECH –  To beg for urgently or anxiously; to request earnestly

BRETHREN – One family in the Lord, expresses affection and relationship. 

And the next day he shewed himself unto them as they strove, and would have set them at one again, saying, Sirs, ye are brethren; why do ye wrong one to another? (Acts 7:26)

There is concern:

So he sent his brethren away, and they departed: and he said unto them, See that ye fall not out by the way. (Genesis 45:24)

But Paul cried with a loud voice, saying, Do thyself no harm: for we are all here.(Acts 16:28)

I. PAUL APPEALS FOR UNITY IN THE NAME OF CHRIST

Christ’s desire and prayer is unity in the truth (John 17; Psa. 133:1)

  • The church is to be the light of the world, Matthew 5: 16.
  • The church is to be a testimony to the world.
  • The church is to bring the gospel to all nations, Mat. 28: 18-20.
  • Church members, working together will accomplish great things.  “United we stand, divided we fall”. 
    • Eph.4: 16 – Like a body that increases its ability.
    • Phil. 1: 27 – Striving together for the faith of the gospel.

Disunity brings disadvantages and consequences to the church

  • It affects the testimony and influence of the church, Matthew 5: 16
  • It causes the church to suffer, discourages the brethren, especially the weak. 

1 Cor. 12:21-26

  • It slows or hinders the growth and progress, (Gal. 5: 15; 19-23).

Paul urges not by his name but by the name of Christ (1 Cor. 3: 4-5)

  • Christ taught love, peace, unity (John 17; 13:35).
  • God’s desire, Psalm 133: 1
  • God is grieved by division. (Eph.4:30). 
  • By our love for Jesus. (Mark 12: 30-31; John 14:15)

II. PAUL APPEALS FOR THEM TO SPEAK THE SAME THING.

But speak thou the things which become sound doctrine:(Titus 2:1)

In all things shewing thyself a pattern of good works: in doctrine shewing uncorruptness, gravity, sincerity, Sound speech, that cannot be condemned; that he that is of the contrary part may be ashamed, having no evil thing to say of you. (Titus 2:7-8)

  • This requires study of God’s words, 2 Tim. 2: 15, John 5: 39.
  • This requires teachability, 2 Tim. 2: 2 ; James 1: 19.
  • This requires humility, Phil. 2:2-5
  • This requires wisdom, James 3:13-18
  • This requires love, Eph. 4: 15, 16, 29, 31-32.

III. PAUL APPEALS TO THEM THAT THEY BE PERFECTLY JOINED TOGETHER. 

To be perfectly joined together requires submission.

  • Submission to God first of all, James 4: 7; 1:22
  • Submission to the leader or pastor, Heb 13: 17; 1 Cor. 16:15-16
    • Submission to a leader if he is submissive also to biblical leadership. 
    • A good leader is a good follower.
  • Submission to the husband as it is fit, Eph. 5: 22; 1 Cor. 11:3
  • Obedience to Parents in the Lord, Eph. 6:1
  • Subjection to government, Romans 13:1-2

To be perfectly joined together requires correction

  • The Bible is to correct us, 2 Tim. 3: 16-17. 
  • Correction will lead to wisdom, maturity, and development of ability. Prov. 10:17; 17:10-11; 9:7-10; 12:1;13:1.
  • The duty of the pastor is to preach the word, teach, exhort, rebuke, correct through the word of God.  (2 Tim. 4:1-5; Titus 2: 15).
  • Members are also to search the Scriptures if the preaching is in the Bible (Acts 17:11; John 5: 39).

To be perfectly joined together requires spirituality

  • There is always a struggle between the flesh and the Spirit, Gal. 5: 17.
  • We need to walk in the Spirit and not be controlled by the flesh, Gal. 5: 16; Eph. 5: 18.

III. PAUL APPEALS TO THEM TO HAVE THE SAME MIND AND JUDGMENT.

  • The Bible speaks of Judge not, Matthew 7: 1-3. 1 Cor. 4:5
  • Man is always guilty of making wrong judgment.     
  • Gossiping, slandering are oftentimes caused by carnality, hatred, envy, jealousy, etc.  (Gal. 5:13-17, 20-21)
  • It causes conflicts and problems.  James 4: 1-3
  • The problem of judgmental spirit or critical spirit is lack of maturity.
  • Romans 12: 3, James 1: 19; James 2: 13;
  • The Bible speaks of righteous judgment, John 7:24
  • When leaders make decisions, they are judging. Moses, Solomon.
  • The church is also to judge, 1 Cor. 6: 2,3 ; 5: 12 ; Mat 18: 15-17.

I Am Thinking of You

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I Am Thinking of You
I’m thinking of you—not just out of friendship or concern, but because there is something truly important I want to share with you.

  1. Because God cares for your soul.
    You are not forgotten. God created you and knows everything about you. He sees your
    joys and your struggles. More than anyone else, He cares deeply for your soul. “Casting
    all your care upon him; for he careth for you.” (1 Peter 5:7)
  2. Because everyone is lost and is in danger.
    The Bible tells us that all have sinned and come short of the glory of God (Romans 3:23).
    This sin separates us from God and places us in spiritual danger—deserving judgment.
    Whether we realize it or not, we all need saving.
  3. Because God has a provision for man’s sin.
    God, in His great love, made a way. He sent His Son, Jesus Christ, to die on the cross for
    our sins and rise again, offering us forgiveness and new life. “But God commendeth his
    love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.” (Romans 5:8)
  4. Because the greatest gift is salvation.
    This gift is not earned by good works or religion—it is offered freely to all who will
    believe. “For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus
    Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23)
    You can receive this gift by trusting in Jesus as your personal Savior.
    I care enough to write to you because your soul matters. Life is uncertain, but God’s promise of
    salvation is sure. Will you consider Him today?

LEVELS OF FRIENDSHIP

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LEVELS OF FRIENDSHIP
(with Scriptural Support)

1. ACQUAINTANCE

Initial connection and kindness toward others.

  • Be alert to new people around you. — “Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.” (Hebrews 13:2)
  • Maintain a cheerful and approachable countenance — smile. — “A merry heart maketh a cheerful countenance.” (Proverbs 15:13)
  • Learn and remember his name; greet him personally. — “I am the good shepherd, and know my sheep, and am known of mine.” (John 10:14)
  • Ask simple, appropriate questions to show acceptance. — “Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others.” (Philippians 2:4)
  • Be a good listener. — “Let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak.” (James 1:19)
  • Remind yourself of God’s love and interest for him. — “For God so loved the world…” (John 3:16)

2. CASUAL FRIENDSHIP

Building trust through openness and care.

  • Discover his strengths and good qualities. — “Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, … honest, … just, … pure, … think on these things.” (Philippians 4:8)
  • Learn about his hopes, desires, and goals. — “Counsel in the heart of man is like deep water; but a man of understanding will draw it out.” (Proverbs 20:5)
  • Ask thoughtful, personal questions to understand better. — “The purposes of a man’s heart are deep waters, but one who has insight draws them out.” (Proverbs 20:5, NIV)
  • Show concern when he shares struggles. — “Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.” (Galatians 6:2)
  • Be honest about yourself; admit faults when appropriate. — “Confess your faults one to another.” (James 5:16)
  • Demonstrate trustworthiness and reliability. — “A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.” (Proverbs 17:17)
  • Pray for him and his needs. — “Pray one for another, that ye may be healed.” (James 5:16)

3. CLOSE FRIENDSHIP

Encouraging growth and walking together in life.

  • Recognize and affirm his potential. — “And let us consider one another to provoke unto love and to good works.” (Hebrews 10:24)
  • Discuss his life goals and purpose. — “Where there is no vision, the people perish.” (Proverbs 29:18)
  • Encourage him to pursue these goals. — “Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.” (Ecclesiastes 4:9)
  • Discern obstacles hindering his progress. — “The prudent see danger and take refuge, but the simple keep going and pay the penalty.” (Proverbs 22:3)
  • Support him in overcoming challenges. — “Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.” (Proverbs 27:17)
  • Inspire and motivate him toward good works. — “And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.” (Galatians 6:9)
  • Encourage with Scripture. — “Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.” (Psalm 119:105)

4. INTIMATE FRIENDSHIP

Deep accountability, loyalty, and spiritual sharpening.

  • Offer comfort during trials and sorrows. — “Comfort one another with these words.” (1 Thessalonians 4:18)
  • Protect his reputation. — “A good name is rather to be chosen than great riches.” (Proverbs 22:1)
  • Be sensitive to areas needing growth in both yourself and him. — “Examine yourselves, whether ye be in the faith.” (2 Corinthians 13:5)
  • Help identify root causes of weaknesses. — “The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?” (Jeremiah 17:9)
  • Encourage correction and accountability, inviting him to speak into your life also. — “Faithful are the wounds of a friend.” (Proverbs 27:6)
  • Search Scripture together for solutions. — “All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness.” (2 Timothy 3:16)
  • Commit to loyalty, faithfulness, and availability. — “A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.” (Proverbs 18:24)

PRIDE AND SIN

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  1. Pride makes life revolve around self, not God
    • Sin is more than wrongdoing—it is self at the center instead of God.
    • Romans 1:24, 26, 28 – “God gave them up” to their own desires.
    • Isaiah 53:6 – “All we like sheep have gone astray… every one to his own way.”
  2. Pride keeps self on the throne
    • Symptoms: envy, immorality, gossip, arrogance, cruelty.
    • Romans 1:29–31 – full list of sins flowing from rejecting God.
    • Judges 21:25 – “Every man did that which was right in his own eyes.”
    • Salvation is deliverance from self, not self-improvement (Galatians 2:20).
  3. Pride blinds the mind
    • When God is dethroned (in the throne of your life), sin no longer looks like sin. (God is still sovereign and on His throne in heaven. He allows man to exercise freewill)
    • Isaiah 5:20 – calling evil good, and good evil.
    • Jeremiah 17:9 – “The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked.”
    • 2 Corinthians 4:4 – “The god of this world hath blinded the minds of them which believe not.”
  4. Pride enslaves, but Christ frees
    • Sin deceives us into thinking we are free.
    • John 8:33–34 – “Whosoever committeth sin is the servant of sin.”
    • Romans 6:16–18 – slaves of sin, but made free through obedience to Christ.
    • Reconciliation requires redemption, not just forgiveness (Colossians 1:13–14).
    • Only Christ restores God to His rightful place in our lives (Philippians 2:9–11).

Ang Tunay na Layunin ng Buhay

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5 Susi sa Pag-unawa…

Ang Totoong Layunin sa Buhay

Maari ba kitang tanungin?

Ano ang pangunahing layunin mo sa buhay?

Naisip mo na ba ito?

Ang magtapos ng pag-aaral, magpakasal, o magpalaki ng mga anak ay hindi ang pangunahing layunin ng ating buhay. Mga mithiin lamang ito na umiikot sa tunay na layunin.

Hindi tayo nabubuhay para magtrabaho, kundi tayo ay nagtatrabaho upang mabuhay. Ngunit ano nga ba ang pangunahing layunin ng pamumuhay?

“Sapagka’t kayo’y binili sa halaga: luwalhatiin nga ninyo ang Dios sa inyong katawan, at sa inyong espiritu, na pawang sa Dios.” (1 Corinto 6:20)

1. May magandang layunin ang Diyos para sa iyong buhay

“Sapagka’t nalalaman ko ang mga pagiisip na aking iniisip tungkol sa inyo, sabi ng Panginoon, mga pagiisip ng kapayapaan, at hindi kasamaan, upang bigyan kayo ng pagasa sa inyong huling wakas.”
(Jeremias 29:11)

“Hindi pumaparito ang magnanakaw, kundi upang magnakaw, at pumatay, at pumuksa: ako’y naparito upang sila’y magkaroon ng buhay, at magkaroon ng kasaganaan.”
(Juan 10:10)

Ngunit bakit karamihan sa mga tao ay walang tamang layunin sa buhay?

2. Ang tao ay makasalanan

“Sapagka’t ang lahat ay nangagkasala nga, at hindi nakaabot sa kaluwalhatian ng Dios.”
(Roma 3:23)

“Gaya ng nasusulat, Walang matuwid, wala, wala kahit isa.”
(Roma 3:10)

“Tayong lahat na gaya ng mga tupa ay nangaligaw; tayo’y tumungo bawa’t isa sa kanikaniyang daan; at ipinasan sa kaniya ng Panginoon ang kasamaan nating lahat.”
(Isaias 53:6)

3. May kaparusahan ang kasalanan

“Sapagka’t ang kabayaran ng kasalanan ay kamatayan; datapuwa’t ang kaloob na walang bayad ng Dios ay buhay na walang hanggan kay Cristo Jesus na Panginoon natin.”
(Roma 6:23)

“Nguni’t sa mga duwag, at sa mga hindi mananampalataya, at sa mga kasuklamsuklam, at sa mga mamamatay tao, at sa mga mapakiapid, at sa mga manggagaway, at sa mga mananamba sa diosdiosan, at sa lahat ng mga sinungaling, ang kanilang bahagi ay sa dagatdagatang nagniningas sa apoy at asupre; na siyang ikalawang kamatayan.”
(Apocalipsis 21:8)

4. Si Jesus lamang ang tanging lunas sa kasalanan ng tao

“Sapagka’t gayon na lamang ang pagsinta ng Dios sa sanglibutan, na ibinigay niya ang kaniyang bugtong na Anak, upang ang sinomang sa kaniya’y sumampalataya ay huwag mapahamak, kundi magkaroon ng buhay na walang hanggan.”
(Juan 3:16)

“At halos lahat ng mga bagay ay nililinis ng dugo ayon sa kautusan, at kung walang pagdanak ng dugo ay walang kapatawaran.”
(Hebreo 9:22)

“Lubha pa nga, ngayong inaring-ganap sa pamamagitan ng kaniyang dugo, ay mangaliligtas tayo sa galit ng Dios sa pamamagitan niya.”
(Roma 5:9)

5. Dapat natin Siyang tanggapin bilang personal na Panginoon at Tagapagligtas

“Datapuwa’t ang lahat ng sa kaniya’y nagsitanggap, ay pinagkalooban niya sila ng karapatang maging mga anak ng Dios, sa makatuwid baga’y sa mga nagsisisampalataya sa kaniyang pangalan.”
(Juan 1:12)

“Sapagka’t sa biyaya kayo’y nangaligtas sa pamamagitan ng pananampalataya; at ito’y hindi sa inyong sarili, ito’y kaloob ng Dios.”
(Efeso 2:8)

“Sinasabi ko sa inyo: Hindi! kundi kung hindi kayo mangagsisi, ay mangalilipol kayong lahat sa gayon ding paraan.”
(Lucas 13:3)

Paul’s Thanksgiving and Prayers

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 Bible Study on Philippians 1

Key Verse

Philippians 1:27 – “Only let your conversation be as it becometh the gospel of Christ: that whether I come and see you, or else be absent, I may hear of your affairs, that ye stand fast in one spirit, with one mind striving together for the faith of the gospel.”

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Background

Written by Paul with Timothy (v.1).

Addressed to all the saints in Philippi, with the bishops and deacons.

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Paul’s Thanksgiving and Prayer (vv.3–11)

1. Remembrance and Gratitude (v.3)

He remembered them and thanked God for them.

2. Prayer for All (v.4)

He prayed for them with joy.

Requests included love, knowledge, and growth.

3. Thankful for Their Fellowship (vv.5–7)

Reasons for fellowship: the Gospel.

Consistency of their partnership.

4. Paul’s Confidence (v.6)

Faith toward God working in them.

Confidence in them because of Christ’s work.


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Paul’s Prayer Requests (vv.9–11)

1. Love may abound more and more.

2. Grow in knowledge and sound judgment.

3. Approve things excellent (v.10).

4. Be sincere (Joshua 24).

5. Be without offense until the day of Christ.

Not sinless perfection, but walking in the Spirit.

6. Be filled with fruits of righteousness (v.11).

By Jesus Christ.

To the glory and praise of God.


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Paul’s Testimony of Suffering for Christ (vv.12–20)

1. His suffering led to the furtherance of the Gospel (vv.12–14).

Willingness to suffer.

His zeal to preach led to imprisonment.

His courage encouraged others.

His sincerity influenced others.

2. Others were made bold to speak the Word (vv.14, 20).

Without fear.

Recognizing fear as a hindrance.


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Application

The Christian life is marked by gratitude, prayer, confidence in God’s work, and perseverance in the Gospel.

Suffering can become a testimony that advances the Gospel.

True fellowship in Christ means striving together with one mind and spirit.

We are called to grow in love, knowledge, sincerity, and fruitfulness for the glory of God.

COMMITMENT

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Text: Luke 9:62

“And Jesus said unto him, No man, having put his hand to the plow, and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God.”

By E. Jardinel

Introduction

Commitment is one of the greatest needs in our day. We live in a world full of tasks, responsibilities, and opportunities—but many lack the commitment to see them through. Jesus made it clear that His followers must not look back once they have committed to following Him.

Today, we will look at why commitment is important, what hinders it, and the blessings that come when we are fully committed to the Lord.

I. The Problem of Commitment Today

Many people start well but fail to finish because they lack commitment.

Maturity matters in commitment. A mature person handles responsibility and follows through; an immature one avoids responsibility and quits easily.

Commitment is needed in every area of life—family, work, relationships, and especially in serving God.

Whenever there’s true commitment, the cause usually succeeds. Even secular causes like communism succeed because of their members’ commitment. How much more should God’s people be committed to His work?

II. The Need for Commitment

A. Christians Have the Greatest Task on Earth

For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?
(Mark 8:36)

Luke 19:10 shows Christ’s main purpose: to seek and save the lost.

For the Son of man is come to seek and to save that which was lost.
(Luke 19:10)

Many work hard for things that will not last, but the work of God is eternal.

“Only one life, ’twill soon be past; only what’s done for Christ will last.”

B. Commitment Is Required to Carry Out This Task

1. Jesus requires commitment (Luke 14:26–33).

2. The Apostles required commitment (2 Timothy 2:2).

3. Pastors and leaders require commitment to accomplish God’s mission.

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III. Hindrances to Commitment

A. Lack of Maturity

1. Social maturity – Ability to relate well with others.

2. Emotional maturity – Ability to cope with responsibility (like a father providing for his family).

3. Spiritual maturity – Ability to exercise spiritual knowledge (Hebrews 5:13–14).

B. Lack of Understanding and Motivation

1. Lack of understanding: Some people don’t see the value of the task.

Communists understand their purpose and impact their society.

The early church understood their purpose and turned the world upside down (Acts 17:6).

2. Lack of motivation: Some understand but are not motivated to act.

Proverbs 11:30 shows wisdom is applying knowledge.

Motivation grows through discipleship:

Jesus invested in disciples (Mark 3:13–14).

The result of discipleship is tremendous (Acts 4:17).

There is a difference between extrinsic motivation (external rewards) and intrinsic motivation (heart-driven obedience).

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C. Concern Over Self More Than the Lord’s Cause

Jesus told us not to worry about ourselves because He is able to provide (Matthew 6:27–34). Our responsibility is to seek His kingdom and His righteousness first (Matthew 6:33).

When God calls, He also provides. Our job is to follow; His job is to supply.

The problem is that we often don’t trust His ability, so we hesitate to follow Him.

You can’t add even one cubit to your life by worrying (Matthew 6:27).

Do your best for the Lord, and He will give His best to you.

When We Are Over-Concerned About Ourselves, the Result Is Frustration

Example: Jonah

Jonah was so focused on himself that he disobeyed God (Jonah 1:1–6).

It was costly.

It was risky.

It affected others (his sleeping showed a lack of concern for others).

Jonah’s concern for his own comfort even after Nineveh repented caused God to rebuke him (Jonah 4:4–10).

Lesson:

Some people are born rich, others poor, but God calls all to be faithful.

If we are faithful in the little things, God will give the increase (Matthew 25:23; 2 Corinthians 9:6 -7).

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III. The Blessings of Commitment (Proverbs 13:19)

A. Rewards in This Life

1. Great joy in a task well done, especially in soul-winning.

2. Quality training through discipleship (2 Timothy 2:2).

The pastor trains you for ministry, and submission brings growth.

3. God’s favor and blessing (Deuteronomy 5:5–6).

Blessed effort → successful ministry.

Effective prayer (John 15:7).

Desires fulfilled (Psalm 37:4; Proverbs 18:22).

Material blessing.

4. Men’s favor.

Churches and mission boards look for faithful people who have proven themselves.

B. Rewards After This Life – Five Crowns

1. Incorruptible Crown – 1 Corinthians 9:25

2. Crown of Rejoicing – 1 Thessalonians 2:19

3. Crown of Life – Revelation 2:10

4. Crown of Glory – 1 Peter 5:4

5. Crown of Righteousness – 2 Timothy 4:8

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Conclusion

If you want rewards in heaven and joy, blessings, and success on earth, you must be committed—to the Lord, to your task, to your pastor, and to your leaders.

You cannot be committed unless you are humble, teachable, mature, and have a deep concern for God’s work. Think of your future, not just now. It is very hard to live and work without God’s blessings and happiness.

Finally, don’t expect blessings from man —expect them from God. He knows your heart, and He rewards faithfulness.

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Living A Godly Life

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For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.

(Romans 8:6)

Sanctify them through thy truth: thy word is truth.

(John 17:17)

What should we do when there is worldliness in our surroundings?

I. Cleave to the Word

 I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing.

(John 15:5)

A. The Word will:

1. Keep us away from sin — “Sanctify them through thy truth: thy word is truth.” (John 17:17)

 2. Help us see our paths — “Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.” (Psalm 119:105,133)

Order my steps in thy word: and let not any iniquity have dominion over me.

(Psalms 119:133)

3. Make us strong against temptation — Jesus overcame the devil by saying, “It is written…” (Matthew 4:4,7,10)

4. Give us wisdom in every decision — “If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally.” (James 1:5)

The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom: and the knowledge of the holy is understanding. (Proverbs 9:10)

5. Convict our lives — “All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness.” (2 Timothy 3:16-17)

 II. Pray for One Another

1. It’s an expression of concern — “Pray one for another, that ye may be healed.” (James 5:16)

2. It is needed in the ministry. 

 Finally, brethren, pray for us, that the word of the Lord may have free course, and be glorified, even as it is with you:(2 Thessalonians 3:1)

3. Prayers help solve problems — Example: Rhoda (Acts 12:12–16) when the church prayed and Peter was miraculously released.

 4. Instead of criticizing your pastor, pray for the pastor — “Obey them that have the rule over you, and submit yourselves: for they watch for your souls.” (Hebrews 13:17)

  • Example of Hur and Aaron (Exodus 17:10)

5. Sometimes we tend to blame someone and fail to see our own faults and shortcomings:

Pray for ourselves — “Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts.” (Psalm 139:23)

Examine yourself — “Examine yourselves, whether ye be in the faith; prove your own selves.” (2 Corinthians 13:5)

Don’t have just “a form of godliness but denying the power” — (2 Timothy 3:5)

If you want to strengthen others, you must first be corrected — “Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.” (Proverbs 27:17)

 III. Be an Example

 A. If you want others to follow, be an example.

  1. An example of faith and giving — “Remember the words of the Lord Jesus, how he said, It is more blessed to give than to receive.” (Acts 20:35) (Bacoor)

2. An example of humility (Christ) — “Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus… he humbled himself, and became obedient unto death, even the death of the cross.” (Philippians 2:5,8)

 3. An example of concern for others — “Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others.” (Philippians 2:4)

 4. An example of conversation and purity.

  • Don’t put down others — “Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying.” (Ephesians 4:29)
  • Let no man despise thy youth; but be thou an example of the believers, in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity. (1 Timothy 4:12)

Why do these?

a) God wants to bless you — “The LORD will give grace and glory: no good thing will he withhold from them that walk uprightly.” (Psalm 84:11)

b) God wants to use you — “Ye are the light of the world… let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.” (Matthew 5:14,16)

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